Savoring the Last Sip of 2025: Standing Out in the Sea of Sameness
As the year winds down, so does the scrolling, the posting, and the chasing of reach and impressions.
What if, instead of trying to be everywhere, you focused on being distinctly you?
I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to stand out when everything looks the same, especially now that AI has flattened so much of what we see online.
AI Has Made Creating Content Easier, But Also Easier to Blend In
Generative tools have unlocked incredible efficiency. We can compose posts, repurpose ideas, and generate hooks with ease.
But there’s a cost:
When everyone has access to the same formulas, templates, and prompt shortcuts, everyone’s content begins to converge.
The result?
A sea of sameness.
Feeds filled with shiny versions of the exact same thing.
Efficient, sure. But not memorable.
Fast, but not distinct.
Visibility Isn’t About Volume Anymore. It’s All About GEO
You’ve probably heard of SEO (Search Engine Optimization). But as AI continues to influence discovery and ranking, Generative Engine Optimization (GEO) is becoming the real game.
GEO prioritizes content that:
-solves a real problem
-answers a real question
-provides real value
(Not just content that uses the right buzzwords or repeats a trending formula.)
In other words:
Visibility now favors usefulness over noise.
This matters because:
Your audience isn’t just looking for posts, they’re looking for answers.
They don’t want templated inspiration, they want actual insight that feels personal and actionable.
They don’t just want to hear from you more often, they want to hear from you with more clarity and distinction.
Three Ways to Be Distinct in a World of Sameness
Here’s how to make sure your content doesn’t just blend in with AI-generated noise:
1. Front-load your perspective
Don’t bury your insight under vague lead-ins. Say what matters up front.
2. Lean into specificity
Your point of view is non-replicable because it’s uniquely yours. Talk about real decisions, real constraints, and real outcomes, not general and generic advice they can get anywhere.
3. Teach something real
AI can summarize and paraphrase. But AI can’t teach what only you know from your lived experience. That’s your advantage.
A Note on Voice, Identity, and Letters to Lilly
This focus on voice isn’t theoretical for me.
This month, I co-published Letters to Lilly: Lessons in Leadership & Loving Yourself, an anthology of letters written to a younger self by contributors from around the world. At its heart, the book is about identity: learning to trust your voice, claim your perspective, and lead from a place of self-belief rather than permission.
Many of the lessons in these letters echo what we’re seeing now in branding and visibility: the people who stand out aren’t the loudest. They’re the clearest in their own value and self worth. They know who they are, what they stand for, and how to articulate it, even when the world is noisy.
As you reflect on your brand and your voice heading into 2026, this book is an invitation to do that work thoughtfully and with a little bit of extra inspiration.
Brand Tip of the Month: Your Voice Is the Differentiator
At the Own Your Spotlight Summit in Raleigh earlier this month, I spoke about something I see more and more:
Your advantage in 2026 isn’t going to be how quickly or how much you can create, it’s how you think and how distinctly you can position your thought leadership.
What AI can’t replace is the why behind your work: the curiosity, experience, intuition, and lessons you’ve learned.
That’s what gets surfaced by GEO, and that’s what gets remembered.
A Thought for Year-End
Before you set goals and resolutions for 2026, ask yourself this:
What do I want my voice to stand for next year?
Not:
how often I’ll post
how many impressions I’ll get (truly the biggest vanity metric)
how many followers I’ll gain
But:
what idea I want people to associate with me
what question I want to be the answer to
what insights I want people to walk away with
The year ahead won’t reward more content, but it will reward distinctive thinking expressed uniquely by you.
That’s the blend worth brewing.
Whatever and however you celebrate, I am wishing you a wonderful holiday season, and a wonderful start to 2026.
Until next time,
Melissa

